Hindustani kinship terms

The kinship terms of Hindustani (Hindi-Urdu) differ from the English system in certain respects.[1] In the Hindustani system, kin terms are based on gender,[2] and the difference between some terms is the degree of respect.[3] Moreover, "In Hindi and Urdu kinship terms there is clear distinction between the blood relations and affinal relations."[4]

Network diagram for North Indian extended family

Relations

Paternal

Pardādā(परदादा, پردادا)- One's father's father's father (One's paternal great-grandfather)

Pardādī(परदादी, پردادی)- One's father's father's mother (One's paternal great-grandmother)

Dādā (दादा, دادا)- One's father's father (One's paternal grandfather), One's uncle (usually elder brother of father)

Dādī (दादी, دادی)- One's father's mother (One's paternal grandmother)

Pāpā (पापा, پاپا)- One's father

Pitājī (पिताजी, پتاجی)- One's father (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Abbā/Bābā (अब्बा/बाबा, بابا/ابا)- One's father (used mainly by the Muslim community)

Kākā (काका, کاکا) - One's father's younger brother

Kākī (काकी, کاکی) One's father's younger brother's wife (by marriage)

Chāchā (चाचा, چاچا)- One's father's younger brother[5][6][7]

Chachā (चचा, چچا)- One's father's younger brother[8][9]

Chāchī (चाची, چاچی)- One's father's brother's wife

Tāu (ताऊ, تاُّو) - One's father's elder brother

Tāyā (ताया, تایا) - One's father's elder brother wife

Barka Abba - One's father's elder brother (used mainly by the Muslim community)

Baṛe Pāpā (बड़े पापा, بڑے پاپا) - One's father's elder brother

Tāī (ताई, تائی) - One's father's elder brother's wife

Baṛī Mām̐(बड़ी माँ, بڑی ماں) - One's father's elder brother's wife

Buā (बुआ, بوا) - One's father's sister

Phuphī (फूफी, پھپی) - One's father's sister

Phuphā (फूफा, پھوپا) - One's father's sister's husband

Maternal

Parnana (परनाना, پرنانا) - One's mother's father's father

Parnani(परनानी, پرنانی) - One's mother's father's mother

Nana (नाना, نانا) - One's mother's father

Nani (नानी, نانی) - One's mother's mother

Ma/Amma/Ammi (माँ/अंबा/माताश्री/मातृ, ماں) - One's mother

Mausi/Mausiya (मौसी, موسی) - One's mother's sister (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Khala/Barki Amma - One's mother's elder sister (used by the Muslim community)

Mausa (मौसा, موسا) - One's mother's sister's husband (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Mama (मामा, ماما) - One's mother's brother

Mami (मामी, مامی) - One's mother's brother's wife

Siblings

Bhai (भाई, بھائی) / Bhaiya (भैया, بھئيا) - One's parent's (share at least one parent) son (your Brother, male sibling)[10]

Behen (बहन, بہیں) - One's parent's (share at least one parent) daughter (your younger Sister, female sibling)

Didi (दीदी, دیدی)- One's parent's (share at least one parent) daughter (your elder Sister, female sibling)

Brother's family

Bhabhi (भाबी, بھابی) - Brother's wife (usually applied for an elder brother's wife)

Bhatija (भतीजा,بھتیجا) - One's brother's son

Bhatiji (भतीजी, بھتیجی) - One's brother's daughter

Sister's family

Jija (जीजा, جیجا) - Sister's husband (usually applied for an elder sister's husband)

Bhanja (भांजा, بھانجا) - One's sister's son

Bhanji (भांजी, بھانجی) - One's sister's daughter

Individual's family

Main (मैं, میں) - First form ('I')

Patni (पत्नी, پتنی) - One's wife[11] (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Biwi (बीवी, بیوی) - One's wife

Pati (पति, پتی) - One's husband (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Khavind (ख़ाविंद, خاوند) - One's husband (used mainly by the Muslim community)

Beta (बेटा, بیٹا)- One's son

Beti (बेटी, بیٹی) - One's daughter

Pota (पोता/परपुत्र, پوتا) - Son's son

Poti (पोती/परपुत्री, پوتی) - Son's daughter

Naati/Dohtaa (नाती/दोहता/परपुत्र) - Daughter's son (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Naatin/Dohtii (नातिन/दोहती/परपुत्री) - Daughter's daughter (used mainly by the Hindu community)

Nawaasa (نواسہ नवासा) - Daughter's son (used mainly by the Muslim community)

Nawaasi (نواسی नवासी) - Daughter's daughter (used mainly by the Muslim community)

In-Laws

Sasur (ससुर, سسُر) - One's husband's/wife's father (Father-in-Law)

Sas (सास, ساس) - One's husband's/Wife's mother (Mother-in-Law)

Damad (दामाद) - One's son-in-law

Bahu (बहू,بہو) - One's daughter-in-law

See also

References