Ada Dwyer Russell

Ada Dwyer Russell (1863–1952) was an American actress who performed on stage in Broadway and London and became the muse to her poet lover Amy Lowell.[7]

Ada Dwyer Russell
Born
Mary Ada Dwyer[1]: 43 

(1863-02-08)February 8, 1863[2]: 48 
DiedJuly 4, 1952(1952-07-04) (aged 89)
Resting placeSalt Lake City Cemetery
40°46′32.6″N 111°51′28.6″W / 40.775722°N 111.857944°W / 40.775722; -111.857944[4]
SpouseHarold Russell (married 1893 separated ~1895)[2]: 51 
Partner(s)Amy Lowell (together 1912–1925)[5]: xl, xlii 
ChildrenLorna Russell Amussen (5 Sep. 1894–30 Sep. 1961)[2]: 48 [6]
Parents
  • Sara Ann Hammer[2]: 51 
  • James Dwyer[2]: 51 

Brief biography

Dwyer was born in 1863 to a recently baptized Mormon Salt Lake City bookkeeper James Dwyer and his wife Sara Ann Hammer.[2]: 51 [8]: 173  In 1893 at the age of thirty she married Boston-born actor[9] Harold Russell (lived 1859–1927),[2]: 51  and they had a daughter Lorna the next year. Their marriage fell apart soon after Lorna's birth and they entered a lifelong separation, though, never legally divorcing.[10] Although no record exists of Dwyer renouncing the Mormon religion she was raised in, she ceased involvement,[2]: 51  and her father was asked to resign in 1913 by top leaders after telling other Salt Lake members that same-sex sexual activity was not a sin.[8]: 428 

Dwyer and Lowell

Lowell around 1916, a few years after she and Dwyer met.

Nearly two decades after separating from Russell, she met writer Amy Lowell in 1912 while on an acting tour in Boston for a play.[5]: xl  Dwyer moved in with Lowell in 1914 and their long-term lesbian relationship, or "Boston marriage" (the term for a 19th-century romantic female relationship) would last over a decade until Lowell's death in 1925.[11] Lowell lovingly referred to Dwyer as "the lady of the moon"[12] and loved Dwyer's daughter and grandchildren as her own.[13] Unfortunately, most of the primary document letters of communication between the two were destroyed by Ada at Amy's request, leaving much unknown about the details of their life together[2]: 47  as they had to hide the nature of their relationship.[12]

Lowell's love poems

Dwyer's grave marker

Ada Dwyer Russell was the subject of many of Lowell's poems,[14] and Lowell wanted to dedicate her books to Dwyer who refused except for one time in a non-poetry book in which Lowell wrote, "To A.D.R., This, and all my books. A.L."[15] Examples of these love poems to Dwyer include the Taxi, Absence,[2]: xxi  In a Garden, Madonna of the Evening Flowers,[13] Opal,[16] and Aubade.[12] Amy admitted to John Livingston Lowes that Dwyer was the subject of her series of romantic poems titled "Two Speak Together".[17][18] Lowell's poems about Dwyer have been called the most explicit and elegant lesbian love poetry during the time between the ancient Sappho and poets of the 1970s.[12]

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